There lies the problem.

Ever being blamed about something you don't know what?

Ever knowing the reason and understanding that it's not even your fault?

Then you will just adjust just for the sake of it. Because that person is someone higher, needs more understanding or because you're the one who needs to bend.

As much as you want to talk it out, how can you? You're not even friends to begin with but you need to co-exist. You sure as hell that you'll only make it worse if you talk it out because that person already started talking against you, assummed and painted yourself as the big bad wolf in that pwrson's world.

So the best thing you can really do is to bend.

Let space and time take it's magic to heal or cool things off.

Even if it's hurting you.
Even if it's affecting you.
Even if it's getting in the way with your relationship with others.

Because you need to understand.
Because you need to be the bigger person.
Because you just need to.
Because that person won't.

If only that person knows what I'm going through.
If only that person can see how much this affects us.
If only that person can be stronger than I am coz I want to throw the towel already.


So much for these kind of relationships...



People should talk TO each other and not ABOUT each other.

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